Letting Go of the Person You Used to Be : Lessons on Change, Loss, and Spiritual Transformation, by Surya Das, from Broadway Books, ISBN 0767908740. Change is one of the hallmarks of our time, from personal loss, disease and injury to widespread financial upheaval and political shifts. From a Buddhist perspective, this is not entirely a bad thing. Change, whether on a large or small scale, provides our most important opportunity to learn about ourselves and the nature of reality. From this essential insight, Lama Surya Das has crafted a timely and fulfilling path to understanding and healing ourselves and finding peace. Now in paperback!